Heartbreak Warfare

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Everything feels like complicated when someone broke your heart. You see dark clouds even if the sky is scorching bright. You think every love song is meant for you. You can hear "word-by-word" for every sad song that is being played. Productivity is a 'no' for you in the mean time. Asking why fate gives you problems. Problems that you just want to squeeze out of your life. But sometimes, all we need to do is to accept change, and press that restart button to forget slowly all the pain. Moving on is not an easy thing to do. But remember, when the rain has stopped and the petrichor smell had gone, taking your first 'moving on' breath has never been so good.

XO, 

Jason

8 tips from me on How to live a successfuly and contented life

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1. Love and trust yourself
Love starts within you, as well as trusting yourself. If you think pessimist, you will never see and feel the magical mystery of life. Learn to think outside the box and try to get out of your comfort zone.

2. Set your goals
As early as the age of 14, I started to ask my self about future plans. Living a spontaneous life is one factor for happy living but having plans for the future you will save you for being nothing. Assurance is the key, first before #YOLO.

3. Surround yourself with great people
Many people will come to our lives whether tangible or intangible. Some of them may come from your high school friends, your nonage friend, colleagues, your parents, event your past significant other. These people can help you shape your personality.

4. Fuel your passion
Act like a lamb, think like a bull. Finding and shaping your passion is a good example of living a productive life. Find a hobby that you love so much it keeps you being in progress. If you like extreme then do sports, inspiring others through letters? try creative writing, culture and arts? go travel. There's a lot of fishes in the sea.

5. Be positive aggressive
Dull moments is part of a journey. Sometimes when life hits boredom. He gives us problems that will surefire keeps us alive and moving. Remember "that without pain, there's no joy" and that "for every dark clouds, there's always a silver lining." There's no story without conflict.

6. Take a look back from those stepping stones
A house was built by those tiny pieces of rocks. As well as a one million bucks. As well as a human body, composed of cells. Count your blessings even the smallest ones and keep gravitated. Take a look on your past achievements so you can see how you went so far.

7. Reflect on things and be thankful
Trapped in the spell of life called Trance? Always give your self a break to "stop, look, and wander" be thankful to God's graces and everyday gift which is life.

8. Never stop learning
Learning doesn't stop after you got your college diploma. Education is different from learning. You will learn new things from the people you meet, movies, novels, television, or even from a stranger. Learning is good. It is a food to your mind and soul. Once, a Philosopher said “The day you stop learning is the day you stop living.”